Apr 06 2009
Trying Times!!
I hope that everyday we all try to better ourselves in some way, learn to think positively, learn something new, learn how to be kind! I cannot stand seeing all of the negative things that are going on in this world, some are brought on by people and others are brought on by nature. We all say that the kids of today are our future leaders of tomorrow, how can they learn to be leaders when they are constantly being abused, neglected, and killed.
How can a parent let themselves fall into this negativity? I am a parent, grandparent and though I know I am not perfect in any way shape or form, I have no reason to blame the kids, grand-kids for what they have or have not learned, I am their teacher. They only learn what they see and hear, they only act the way they act because they are trying to tell you something, we have to learn to listen. This world is full of people willing to help, if you just ask!! No one wants to judge you or belittle you because you need help, the fact is we all need help and would be better off if we learned to ask for it sooner than later. I know that everyone has good in them and that they start out wanting to do and be good but something happens along the way and they do not reach out for help, they let the negativity take control and then their world starts spiraling down, one negative thing after another. We have to learn to be accountable for our own actions and stop blaming what has happened in the past or the present and stop this destruction of ones self and their loved ones.
There is nothing more important in this world than your family and the sooner people realize that and embrace the fact that family loves you unconditionally, when you think they do not love you it is when you have let all of the negativity in your life take over. Wake up people and smell the roses just because things aren’t perfect you can manage to make the best of them.
Stop and think before you act or say something and you will find out that things work out much better and in your favor if you just stop and think!!
